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Intimacy & Wellness Coaching

For women with complex, long-term pain during sex


If intimacy feels painful, overwhelming, disappointing, or something you’ve learned to avoid, you are not alone. Many women silently carry shame or disconnection from their bodies. 


As an intimacy coach, I guide women in creating a compassionate, supportive space to reconnect with themselves, heal their relationship with their bodies, and rediscover intimacy on their own terms.

Why traditional approaches often fall short

Many women improve significantly through pelvic floor physical therapy and a multidisciplinary approach.


But anyone living with a chronic health condition can tell you that improvement doesn't always mean remission.


Even when symptoms ease up, many women are left navigating a complicated world of intimacy, relationships, dating, and self-worth on their own.


Our sexual sides don't disappear simply because our bodies change...


They evolve!


Yet so many women are taught to put their lives on hold while they wait to be "fixed."


Over the years, I've noticed women with pelvic pain tend to fall into one or more of four common patterns:

  • They stop having sex or dating entirely.
  • They continue having painful penetrative sex despite increasing pain, often to preserve a relationship.
  • They remove penetration but struggle with feelings that alternative forms of intimacy aren't enough.
  • They put intimacy, dating, and sometimes entire parts of their lives on hold while pursuing a full-time "fix it" mindset.


My work is for the women who are tired of waiting for the day they're "finally healed" to start living.


The women who keep telling themselves:

"When my pain goes away, then I'll start dating."

"When I'm healed, then I'll enjoy sex."

"When this is behind me, then I'll feel like myself again."


Intimacy, pleasure, connection, and love shouldn't be reserved for some future version of you. 


They deserve a place in your life at all stages.

Book a free intimacy support call!

Book a free 15-minute discovery call


A supportive, no-pressure conversation to share what you're navigating, ask questions, and explore whether intimacy coaching is the right next step for you.


Together we'll discuss your goals, challenges, and what support could look like moving forward.

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My story

For many years, I had severe vulvodynia and pelvic pain. Work, friendships, and hobbies felt impossible, let alone dating, sex, or discovering my life's purpose. 


I tried medications, pelvic floor PT, disability permits, topicals, and even surgery. I had moments of improvements and relief, but many interventions that were meant to solve my problems only made things worse. Over time, I began to fear that my pain might be permanent, and I spent years trapped in a cycle of frustration, grief, and feeling unworthy.


What I didn't realize at the time is that healing often happens in slow, gentle steps.


My life began to change when I stopped forcing my body and started working with it. Through nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and reimagining my relationship to intimacy, I slowly began to rebuild my life.


I stopped measuring my sex life against everyone else's.


Ironically, the less pressure I placed on myself, the more pleasure I was able to experience. I stopped waiting for life to begin once I was "fixed" and started creating an intimate life that worked with my body's reality.


Along the way, I discovered a truth that now forms the foundation of my work:


There are infinite ways to be intimate.



How I Help


I provide structured, high-touch 1:1 coaching for women navigating complex, long-term pain during sex.


Together, we:

✔ Redefine what intimacy means for you

✔ Discover forms of pleasure, touch, and connection that work with your body's unique reality

✔ Develop the language, boundaries, and communication skills needed to navigate dating, relationships, and intimacy with confidence

✔ Build greater trust and safety within your body

✔ Create an intimate life that prioritizes pleasure, connection, and self-worth instead of waiting for a future version of yourself to arrive


There are not enough spaces for women to openly discuss the emotional, relational, and sexual realities of living with pain during sex.


My coaching provides a compassionate, supportive space to explore those conversations, reconnect with yourself, and begin building the intimate life you deserve, regardless of your starting point.

Coaching Programs

🌱 Single Session - Clarity & Relief

$120 | 50 Minutes | Intimacy Coaching
A focused, one-time session for women who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of their next step.


Whether you're navigating pelvic pain, intimacy challenges, dating, relationship concerns, or questions about pleasure, this session is designed to help you gain clarity and create a path forward.


Together we'll identify the biggest obstacles keeping you stuck, explore practical next steps, and help you leave with a greater sense of confidence, direction, and possibility.


Perfect for women who want support without committing to a longer coaching package.


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🔥 The Intimacy Reset

 $600 | 6 Sessions | To be completed in 3 months

Perfect for women who are tired of putting intimacy, dating, pleasure, and connection on hold while navigating pelvic pain.


Over 6 sessions, we'll:

• Discover practical forms of touch, pleasure, and intimacy that genuinely feel good for your body

• Complete exercises that help you identify your likes, dislikes, boundaries, curiosities, and turn-ons

• Learn how to communicate your needs, desires, and boundaries with greater confidence

• Reduce feelings of pressure, performance, and comparison

• Build greater trust in your body and understand why fear, pain, and intimacy often become intertwined

• Create a personalized roadmap for intimacy that works with your body's current reality, regardless of your starting point


Includes 6 private coaching sessions, access to 30 guided meditations, personalized home practices and reflection exercises, and email support between sessions.

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Hypnosis* coming soon

Hypnosis is a powerful healing modality because it bypasses the limits of the conscious mind and works directly with the subconscious, where pain responses, fear, and protective patterns often live.


Pain does not depend on what's happening in the tissues. Pain depends on what your brain thinks is happening in the body and tissues. 


This is why shifting your beliefs around intimacy, pleasure, & safety is essential to healing. 


Hypnosis helps reprogram old stories (“sex = penetration” or “intimacy = feeling unworthy” ) & teaches your body that intimacy can be a safe, expansive, whole-body experience.


Ironically, when intimacy feels safe again, pain can reduce significantly, and penetration may become more accessible. But in my programs, you will explore so many ways to be intimate that it's likely penetration simply becomes an option to you, not the gold standard! 


Clinical research shows:

  • Hypnosis is significantly more effective than talk therapy alone for pain reduction and quality of life.
  • Most chronic pain clients see meaningful improvement within 4–10 sessions, with especially strong results around 7 sessions.
  • Hypnosis is also proven effective for changing limiting beliefs and behaviors, making it a powerful tool for releasing shame, fear, and restrictive definitions of sex.
     

I pair hypnosis with sex coaching techniques to ensure change isn’t just theoretical, but lasting. 


Coaching provides the education and reframe of intimacy; hypnosis helps your body and mind live that reframe. 


Together, they get you to a place of feeling sexy, empowered, and intimate, while gently reducing pain patterns that keep you stuck in cycles of fear and frustration.


Packages are customizable depending on goals. 


These are transformational programs to truly enjoy intimacy again.


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