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Do you experience pain during sex?
Does the thought of intimacy make you tighten, brace, or feel shame because it’s not enjoyable?
Have you avoided dating altogether, or stopped talking about sex with your partner?
You are not broken, and you're not alone.
Most of us grew up with sex education...not pleasure education. We learned the mechanics and the risks, but no one taught us how to feel safe in our bodies, how to experience intimacy without pressure, or how to embrace pleasure without shame.
As women, we receive societal pressure to be “a sweetheart by day" and a "freak in the sheets by night." So many women, with or without pain, live in a constant cycle of shame, fear, and disconnection around sex. When pain is part of the story, intimacy can feel impossible.
For decades, I had one of the worst forms of vulvodynia: sharp clitoral and urethral pain, swelling, bladder urgency, and an inability to orgasm or be touched at all. Exercising and sleep felt impossible, let alone dating, sex, or discovering my life's purpose.
I tried medications, pelvic floor PT, disability permits, topicals, and even surgery. Nothing worked, and some interventions made things worse. I started to feel a sense of desperation that my pain might be permanent, and for years I was in a cycle of feeling unworthy.
Everything changed when I stopped forcing my body and started working with it, through nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and truly reimagining my relationship to intimacy. I stopped trying to measure my sex life against others.
Ironically, the less pressure I put on myself, the more pleasure I was able to experience, and my pain started to dissipate.
I discovered the truth that leads the basis of my work today: that healing begins when we recognize there are infinite ways to be intimate.
Book a free 10-minute discovery call to share your story and learn about my offerings.
I provide structured, high-touch 1:1 coaching packages for women with complex, long-term pain during sex. My approach combines:
Together, we:
✔ Redefine what intimacy means for you
✔ Expand your capacity for pleasure in sex and everyday life
✔ Develop boundaries, language, and tools to confidently express your desires to partners & dates, and truly enjoy intimacy again
✔ Build safety & trust in your body
✔ Create pathways to empowered intimacy
✔ Gently reduce the intensity & duration of pain & flare-ups along the way
Hypnosis is a powerful healing modality because it bypasses the limits of the conscious mind and works directly with the subconscious, where pain responses, fear, and protective patterns often live.
Pain does not depend on what's happening in the tissues. Pain depends on what your brain thinks is happening in the body and tissues.
This is why shifting your beliefs around intimacy, pleasure, & safety is essential to healing.
Hypnosis helps reprogram old stories (“sex = penetration” or “intimacy = feeling unworthy” ) & teaches your body that intimacy can be a safe, expansive, whole-body experience.
Ironically, when intimacy feels safe again, pain can reduce significantly, and penetration may become more accessible. But in my programs, you will explore so many ways to be intimate that it's likely penetration simply becomes an option to you, not the gold standard!
This might sound “woo woo,” but clinical research shows otherwise:
I pair hypnosis with sex coaching techniques to ensure change isn’t just theoretical, but lasting.
Coaching provides the education and reframe of intimacy; hypnosis helps your body and mind live that reframe.
Together, they get you to a place of feeling sexy, empowered, and intimate, while gently reducing pain patterns that keep you stuck in cycles of fear and frustration.
Packages are semi-customizable depending on goals.
These are transformational programs to truly enjoy intimacy again.
This work shifts your energy from “I hope they accept my pain and still love me” to “You’re lucky to be with me. I know what I offer”
That sense of self is the true transformation.
An Intro to Your Pleasure
$150 | 1 Hour | Intimacy Coaching & Hypnosis
A single-session reset designed to gift your body a fresh start. Perfect for women curious about coaching or wanting to experience the power of how hypnosis + intimacy coaching can open the door to safety and connection.
6-Session Reset
$799 | Six Sessions | To be completed in 3 months
Perfect for women ready to enjoy intimacy again
Over 6 sessions, we’ll:
Includes 6 sessions ($900 value), access to 30 guided meditations ($300 value), curated self-pleasure/home assignments ($100 value), and email support between sessions ($100-$300 value)
$1,500 value...
for $799
Complete Transformation
10 Sessions + 2 "Top Off" Sessions
For women ready for deep, lasting transformation. The Pleasure Immersion gives you the structure, tools, and support to fully reprogram your relationship with intimacy and pleasure.
Over our sessions, you’ll:
What’s Included:
$3,000 value...
for $1,499
The Pleasure Immersion is designed to return to your sense of self, so you can finally stop circling around pain and step into a life of connection, pleasure, and intimacy on your own terms.
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