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Do you experience pain during sex?
Does the thought of intimacy make you tighten, brace, or feel shame because it’s not enjoyable?
Have you avoided dating altogether, or stopped talking about sex with your partner?
You are not broken, and you're not alone.
Most of us grew up with sex education...not pleasure education. We learned the mechanics and the risks, but no one taught us how to feel safe in our bodies, how to experience intimacy without pressure, or how to embrace pleasure without shame.
As women, we receive societal pressure to be “a sweetheart by day" and a "freak in the sheets by night." So many women, with or without pain, live in a constant cycle of shame, fear, and disconnection around sex. When pain is part of the story, intimacy can feel impossible.
For decades, I had one of the worst forms of vulvodynia: sharp clitoral and urethral pain, swelling, bladder urgency, and an inability to orgasm or be touched at all. Exercising and sleep felt impossible, let alone dating, sex, or discovering my life's purpose.
I tried medications, pelvic floor PT, disability permits, topicals, and even surgery. Nothing worked, and some interventions made things worse. I started to feel a sense of desperation that my pain might be permanent, and for years I was in a cycle of feeling unworthy.
Everything changed when I stopped forcing my body and started working with it, through nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and truly reimagining my relationship to intimacy. I stopped trying to measure my sex life against others.
Ironically, the less pressure I put on myself, the more pleasure I was able to experience, and my pain started to dissipate.
I discovered the truth that leads the basis of my work today: that healing begins when we recognize there are infinite ways to be intimate.
Book a free 10-minute discovery call to share your story and learn about my offerings.
I provide structured, high-touch 1:1 coaching packages for women with complex, long-term pain during sex. My approach combines:
Together, we:
✔ Gently reduce the intensity & duration of pain & flare-ups
✔ Build safety & trust in your body
✔ Redefine what intimacy means for you
✔ Expand your capacity for pleasure in sex and everyday life
✔ Create pathways to empowered intimacy
Hypnosis is a powerful healing modality because it bypasses the limits of the conscious mind and works directly with the subconscious, where pain responses, fear, and protective patterns often live.
Pain does not depend on what's happening in the tissues. Pain depends on what your brain thinks is happening in the body and tissues. Rewiring that perception is essential for healing, and hypnosis is one of the most effective ways to do it.
It might sound “woo woo,” but clinical research shows otherwise:
I pair hypnosis with sex coaching techniques to ensure change is not just theoretical, but lasting. We get you to a place of feeling sexy, empowered, and intimate, while gently reprogramming pain patterns that keep you stuck in chronic pain cycles.
*No realistic surgeon, coach, or healer can guarantee a perfectly pain-free life. What I can guarantee is significant improvements that will make both life and intimacy feel enjoyable again.
My clients learn how to reduce the intensity and frequency of flare-ups, reconnect with their bodies, and deeply expand their definition of intimacy.
Most importantly, this work shifts your energy from “I hope they accept my pain and will still love me” to “You’re lucky to be with me.”
That sense of self is true transformation.
An Intro to Your Pleasure
$150 | 1 Hour | Intimacy Coaching & Hypnosis
A single-session reset designed to gift your body a fresh start. Perfect for women curious about coaching or wanting to experience how hypnosis + intimacy coaching can open the door to safety and connection.
6-Session Transformation
$799 | Six Sessions | To be completed in 3 months
Perfect for women ready to move beyond fear and frustration.
Over 6 sessions, we’ll:
Includes access to guided meditations, educational lessons on intimacy, self-pleasure/home assignments, and email support between sessions
Complete Intimacy Reset
$2,499 | 10 Sessions + "Top Off" Sessions | 6 Month Journey
For women ready for deep, lasting transformation. The Pleasure Immersion gives you the structure, tools, and support to not only reduce pain but to fully rewire your relationship with intimacy, dating, and pleasure. Over our sessions, you’ll:
What’s Included:
The Pleasure Immersion is designed to return to your sense of self, so you can finally stop circling around pain and step into a life of connection, pleasure, and intimacy on your own terms.
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